My eldest son, Dash, has just turned seven. This is the kid who would start planning his next year's party as we start cleaning up the mess of his this-year's party. He's party mad.
But last year I warned him: Next year, no big party. Just four friends. Maybe a sleepover? With a whole year to get his head around a "more intimate" sized party, there was no fuss. A sleepover sounded good, with a limit of four; closer to the time he requested a Dinosaur theme.
We planned the party for a Friday night, with the boys being dropped off at our house after school and to be picked up by 9.30am the next morning.
Invites went out to the chosen four - all boys we know pretty well, and could see them all getting on together fine.
We arranged for little sister to have her own sleepover at a friend's place, and kept the plans very simple:
- kids arrive from school, set up their sleeping space,
- have afternoon tea (milk with flavoured sippah straws, popcorn, fruit)
- construct a hut in the bedroom out of camo tarpaulins
- play soccer in the garden with dad, jump on the tramp etc
- stick on fake dino tattoos, and play with dino goo
- hide toy dinosaurs in the garden for a hunt after dark
- have pizza & lemonade for tea
- make their own ice cream sundaes for dessert
- Birthday cake, Sing happy birthday/blow out candles
- Play PS2 "Jungle Buzz" while we wait for it to get dark
- Take torches & go dino hunting (keep what you find)
- Play "Spotlight" with dad being the hunter
- Watch "Night at the Museum 2" on DVD in sleeping bags
- Fall asleep with no mucking around because they are soooo tired from having soooo much fun!
Mr G and I agreed afterwards that this was actually our favourite birthday party ever. It was so relaxed and great to get to hang out with our boy and his mates! Friends looked at us a bit funny when we said we were having a sleepover (like, are you crazy??) but it was great. Honest.
There were only a few "moments" of tension when one lad completely dominated at Jungle Buzz and ruffled the other boys' feathers by gloating. We had a word in his ear and he toned it down and things went along more happily after that. But there were no shenanigans. They all slept well and went to sleep easily.
Mr G enjoyed taking on all five of them at soccer; the boys were ecstatic when they won 10-7.
Here's how I did it...
To make the Volcanic Cone...
Mix a double batch of One Egg Chocolate Cake batter. Line a medium ceramic bowl ( like the one pictured) with baking paper and fill with batter. Cook at 180oC until a skewer comes out clean (40-60 minutes). Don't cook on a fan-forced setting so that the cake will have an even surface. Meanwhile...
To make the Lava Eruption...
Line another oven dish with baking paper and arrange a packet of orange glucose sweets (e.g. barley sugars) randomly. Pop into the oven for approx 5 minutes.
They will melt quickly into a blob like this:
Before the melted candy hardens, use a knife to separate the blobs into individual pieces, with sharpish ends, like this:
The Volcano...
Once the cone shaped cake is completely cooled set it in postition on the base cake.
Mix up another batch of butter cream icing, add cocoa powder for a chocolate flavour and then add black food colouring until you are happing with the colour (a nice dark browny-charcoal).Once the cone shaped cake is completely cooled set it in postition on the base cake.
Add some toy dinosaurs, plastic trees and finally poke in the melted sweets for an erupting volcano.
My little guy's eyes nearly popped out of his head when he saw his cake. His jaw dropped and he went, "Ohhhhh wooooowww! Aaaaawwwwesome!" And so did his friends.
